W still lives with D24, D's boy friend and our GS. She still only works and sleeps. Her hours for work are still 4Am to 2PM no weekends off. Talked to her earlier in the week. Told her I am concerned she is in depression, sleeping all the time. She denies, says if there's something to do she can stay awake. But outside of work she's only awake an hour or two a day. Talked to her about Retrouvaille, I'll let her think about it a few days. Next session is in April.
I had bypass surgery 10/15/07, W filed 2 weeks after I got out of the hospital. Court date on 1/23/08 now for property and spousal support. W did say a few things that put a distance between us, didn't do a good job of listening, whack myself with a 2x4. I will the next time. It was the first time she said anything about things that upset her, maybe a baby step.
One thing about my sitch is I've gotten closer to the kids. W was the one who called S26 & D24 to check on them and would update me. Now I call them about twice a week, go to S26's house 2 or 3 times a month, same with D24. D19 & S25 still live with me. S25 is trying to become a police officer and is waiting to get a job before moving out.
I think she is in a MLC, MC confirms. She thinks running away from me and our problems will solve them.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
