Only you know the truth. You and your wife. We are outside observers with 1/2 the story. What do we know? If you want truth talk to her. Find out what matters to her, what she's scared of, what she is looking for. Spriritual growth....what's that? Sitting in a haze of smoke talking deep thoughts with other similarly passive people? People speak in stock meaningless phrases. That's not real communication.
Sit down, eye to eye, and really talk to her. Tell her your dreams, listen to hers. You don't have to make it all fit together right then. Just listen, ask questions. Try to walk in her shoes. Then you will know the truth. It's not out here. It's inside the two of you.
