Walked out after 9 years

[AliSuddenly]

Thank you so much, I will definetly buy the book then... I feel that it will be a couple of weeks yet before he gets in touch.

It wouldnt be a deal breaker, no. I had a commitment crisis at the 5 year mark and was "in love" with a guy from work for a year! I even asked my H to move out, and he forgave me. So I would so the same, espec if this has all been a MLC from the death of his dad at 68. I will post there then, thankyou. The problem I have is, I'm 37 nearly and we have early menopause in my family (my Nan was 39!). He told his Mum in February that we were thinking of having a family in a year or two. He met that girl in June...so I wonder if he fancied her at least? I really dont think anything happened. She is mid twenties!!! :-(