God Frank, Amy knows more about this than most anyone here, but it sounds like your hitting a MLC.
You know if your wife was positively doing this crap again and going to put you through this, man I'd be the first to go, you know what? Once is enough, you did your best, walk tall and proud.
But this time. Frank, this is all you.
Did you get to the goal you wanted, look around and go, "F me...this isn't what I wanted."??
how do you know it's 'not done'? how many times does she have to get to this place of 'resolve'? maybe this is just unhealthy for us, for her? i'm not saying you're wrong or right, just that I don't see it.
