Grid,

I didn't know my thread locked, I must be an old timer now.

I planted the seed of Retrouvaille in her mind. there was a session this weekend but not enough time for W to arrange time off. Next one is in April. Don't know if I should request info and have it sent to D24's house or just copy some of the info and send that to her. Our biggest problem, I think is lack of communication, that's what they work with you on.

W waffles on if she likes her job or not, One day she hates it, the next loves it. Can't understand why she is willing to put up with hours that no one else is on. She will fall asleep at D24's house in the living room with every one else in the room, lots of yelling and screaming will not wake her. Told her when I talked to her last that I was worried about her and depression because she sleeps so much. She said she can stay awake if there's something to do. I told her it's not normal to sleep all the time when there is nothing to do. I found an article in a magazine, actually a question to Laskas in Readers Digest. A man wrote in his W sleeps all the time also. The answer was she could be suffering from chronic fatigue syndrome or depression, get her to a doctor. Next time I see her I'm going to show it to her, maybe she'll see it if it is in writing.

What kind of seeds for thought are you giving H? I hope I put some in W's head about Retro. And she's afraid we can get back on track but will revert back to where we are now. I told her she will never know if she doesn't give us a chance that I don't want to look back in three years and say if only.

Mike


M 51
W 49
S26 S25
D24 D19
Married 27 yrs
T over 30
S 7/12
D-bomb 9/26