How are you doing so far Sooner? I'm afraid I just blew it. Just had the famous argument with H. I want to kick myself. I feel so very tired of H telling me how I am stressing and pressurising him whenever I bring up this subject. What on earth could be so stressful about something so natural and wonderful as to connect intimately with the one you love. If you ask me, I would say its destressing and relaxing. I want so much for my marriage to be filled with excitement and passion but alas it can only be that way if two will work on it. I definitely need help. The SSM book isn't helping. Not when H won't read it. I need a book on "How to survive a marriage without passion" or "How to remain content when your spouse is your roomate" or something like that. I feel so frustrated. Sorry to be so negative. Its just one of those days. Hope you're doing better. LH
