There will be cheescake! Probably more than one. I think maybe a strawberry, a fudge swirl, and maybe a classic NY style with some chocolate sauce and raspberry sauce.
new_...You are right, that's a controlling statement. I though about that for a while after I read your post. And the thing is, right now, in my situation, I think that if anything is going to happen it is going to be because I force it to. I truly think W would live like this indefinitely. So, I don't really see anything changing until I make some kind of if..then..else statement (ow! I just went total geek!) or just tell her to leave. So, maybe I will have to be controlling. If you have any other ideas I would love to hear them, seriously! I throw enough of mine around, I can listen to someone else's! The one thing I can do now is take W2S's suggestion from my previous thread, and live as though she was already gone. Which, unfortuanately, might not be that hard to imagine!