There will be cheescake! Probably more than one. I think maybe a strawberry, a fudge swirl, and maybe a classic NY style with some chocolate sauce and raspberry sauce.

new_...You are right, that's a controlling statement. I though about that for a while after I read your post. And the thing is, right now, in my situation, I think that if anything is going to happen it is going to be because I force it to. I truly think W would live like this indefinitely. So, I don't really see anything changing until I make some kind of if..then..else statement (ow! I just went total geek!) or just tell her to leave. So, maybe I will have to be controlling. If you have any other ideas I would love to hear them, seriously! I throw enough of mine around, I can listen to someone else's! The one thing I can do now is take W2S's suggestion from my previous thread, and live as though she was already gone. Which, unfortuanately, might not be that hard to imagine!

Ok, enough of that! Where's the Bailey's?