thanks John...thats probably why are situations are very similar...we think alike...
When someone totally snubs for for as long as this has gone on, it makes it easier and easier to detach. My feelings are that this is a bummmer, I dont know what it's going to be like to raise two kids as a single father, I'm shocked this is happening to me, it's not deserved, but this person obviously isnt the same person I have known forever, and this alien wants nothing to do with me. That seems to be clear.
As far as DB Principles. I havent pursued, begged, pleaded, reasoned for quite awhile....maybe not long enough, but I cant do any of these things because she wont engage me.
If I felt better, and if I didnt think it potentially didnt impact the custody situation of my kids, I would go to vegas or something like that. I am leaving out of town next week for 6 days, so that will help.
Interesting, one of my friends had a woman ask him about me already. How weird is that? I know there will be plenty of opportunity, but I guess I still have hope my W will have a huge hit of oxygen to her brain.
I think she's expecting me to put on the boxing gloves, that's what's pissing her off, that I havent done that yet. I think theres plenty of time to do that yet. And I can jab with the best of them.
I went awol for three days once...totally awol. she didnt handle it well and was really concerned for me. She also didnt handle it well with my kids, telling them she didnt know where I was. But I dont think it got me anywhere.
