Go to coundeling or just go? I thought thats what everyone was saying??? Now should I phrase it mroe carefully when I tell her? of course. I was thinking along the lines of - Look baby, weve had problems for the past several months and they are not seeming to get much better. I feel that weve done all we can ourselves and we still end up in the same arguements, the same fights, the same power struggles. I think we need some help outside the marriage. I want us to go to counseling together and heal our relationship. I want to have the best, most rewarding, most exciting relationship with YOU, my wife. I simply cant continue to go down this road with you without some outside help. If youre unwilling to work with me on this, to work on our relationship so that we are both happy I will have to move on.
