what to look for in a therapist/counselor

[cat03]

1- I tried first for pastoral counceling, the first one was so so, the last PC I found was awesome, I did a yahoo search, the one we have now I found through my insurance, I tried to look for websites so I could read their bios

2- I'm always the one doing the research, my H doesn't have the time and resources (i'm on the computer all day) so I did the search.

3-If my H responded, it was a good sign, though I did have a great C but H was reluctant at the time with our overall sitch, so that C didn't work out well in the end.

4- I looked for an Imago T, but it was hard to find them, the best one didnt' take insurance and one other one was too far