[/quote] I've just read the last couple of notes, so forgive me if this is old territory. The WAH believes he knows you and that you'll never change - those beliefs give him confidence that he can walk away and you'll "stay put". Challenging those beliefs, even with something as simple as not spending the night, can stir things up. We don't know why he asked, but we do know that he did ask - curiosity is a powerful ally. [quote]
What Chuck wrote here is OHHHHH so true!
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
