It is hard to reason with a W that is so far gone. They sure make it easy to lose your love for them with their hostility. Mine too has had everyone tell her she is destroying her life but she does not want to hear that.
I like what your FIL said. I believe my MIL says about the same thing but I cant talk with her because of a language barrier.
She is selfish and not thinking about you or the sake of the kids growing up under the guidance of 2 loving parents.
