I am ok Jak...I started posting in Newcomers when you were busy. You can go check it out if you want.

Honestly, nothing much is new. Pretty much the same old thing, new day. I pushed him away since Thanksgiving and its been tough. Now I am at the point where I need to figure out how to have a working relationship with him regarding our daughter. I am now almost 31 weeks and its getting closer and closer.

I honestly have no idea what the status of he and OW are. They both swear they are just friends but its enough to make me uncomfortable.

I think in his perfect world we would continue on like this and not have any changes. I need to accept that and figure out how to coparent with him. I see an attorney on Monday to find out what my rights/his rights are, child support, etc. before I open my mouth to him about all that.

Right now he is trying to be very nice. Not sure if its because the baby is getting closer or what. I am not sure. I just go along and keep my distance.

I have been thinking about you. I hope things in your world are getting better. If you can read my thread and let me know what you think.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!