Michelle, I hope you'll find out that you have more options than you think after you talk to the L.
You didn't quit - your H chose to leave. I wish you had handled it differently, but I do understand that sometimes the pain and anger is very difficult to keep in.
Maybe take a couple of days to be good to yourself and decide whether you wish to continue to DB. If you decide that you're going to, reading other people's posts will give you some ideas of what kinds of things you could be doing, as well as Divorce Remedy, if you haven't read it already.
