I know she's still "messed up" (her words). Truth is she has seriously thought about coming back a couple of times in the past year. I'm glad she didn't because I believe she would have run back to the tunnel and I don't want her back til she's done, if I want her at all.
I wasn't refering to speaking to her to stop the affair. I was referring to doing other things, mostly putting pressure on him. She's just a piece of a** to him and she knows it. She has told me there is no affection between them, gift he bought her (phone) has no sentimental value. Trips he takes her on cost him nothing as he is the pilot. I have never seen them hold hands, kiss, etc. He hasn't repaired anything at the house for her and won't eat at her place because it would, "be a sign of commitment" (his words). Early on she told me he is the only one that has asked her out. She has always been the pursuer in their relationship. By now, nobody would ask her out because everyone assumes they are a couple. He's all she's got. How sad.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
