[/quote]I need to start the GAL process. I've been needing to loose a lot of weight, always wanted to try yoga, etc. It's time for ME!!! I've given 20 yrs to H, it's my turn! [quote]
Sooner,
This is excactly what you need to do. If H asks you where you are/were, tell him out having a good time. Do not give details. Do not ask about OW or have any R talk. Make him wonder if he is truly going to lose you. Make him see a strong independent person that does not need her H but does want him. be the girlfriend. Best to just work on you for now. Let him work out his own crap and own up to it.
Sorry to see you here but, you are in the presence of wonderful people that can offer so much support.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
