Hi, just droppedn in. Have you ever read The Power of a Praying Husband? Maybe this would help with your sitch. Or how about Five Love Languages or maybe it's The Five Languages of Love Also, have you checked our rejoiceministries.org?
Just some thoughts. I would give anything if my H was still in the house with me. He's been gone over a year, but although "many are the plans in a man's heart, it is the plan of God that prevails."