I just saw the post that you left yesterday Michelle. I do think that he signed a lease at the house is why he was still there. I think it was up in December though...which makes me nervous that he has signed another one since he is still there. I hope not. He hasn't said that he has and he acts like he could leave.
I don't think he felt any financial strain at the time. That is about to change though. He has been paying me half the bills, his car payment, and rent on that house. He is paying them more in rent than what he is giving me for half the mortgage! That seems odd to me since there are supposedly three of them splitting it but whatever. I do think he didn't want to be at the house for emotional reasons. He just kept saying I CAN'T stay there.
I do have a very big problem with coming to H's rescue. He just makes bad decisions though. For instance, he waived the right to have the AF move him back here. He said that he couldn't give them a date and wasn't sure he was coming so he just told them he didn't want them to move him. Now his excuse for not moving is financial reasons. He should not have made that decision until the very last second. Now he says he can't go back on it.
Also, he has put everything into this one job. If they don't call him then he is screwed and has wasted over a month of job hunting time. When looking for a job you can't just put in one application and that's it.
If he doesn't make a decision by the end of the month then he will lose the apartment. I just really feel like he wants to do this but I don't know what is holding him back. He has TOLD me he wants to do it.
