First off, I think you should arrange for a consultation with one of Michele's people before you do anything.
If you decide to press the issue, and I don't disagree with your reasons, then be prepared for the fallout.
Reduce the situation to a few simple facts.
Are you willing to leave things the way they are?
Is it 'ok' for her to ignore your needs?
Are you meeting hers? Are you SURE?
If you decide that it your current situation isn't 'ok' (obviously, it isn't) and decide to push the issue, then you had better be prepared for repercussions. There is a chance that it will turn things around. There is a chance it will destroy the relationship.
What you really have to decide, is just how important is the sex/love portion of your relationship. If it will ultimately destroy the relationship anyway, then I wouldn't waste a minute in pushing the envelope. If you might eventually learn to accept "status quo", then you will probably want to back off.
We all like and want black and white decisions. Even when we make one that appears to be very clear and well defined, the results are often a shade of gray. You have a decision to make - Push and accept, or wait and accept. Spending your life going in circles, anger and despair to elation and hope, is no way to live. I did it for over 10 years. I will never be that patient for such a simple matter of choice, again.
You can't listen hard to my advice, though. My advice is from my perspective, not yours. As for making a decision, you will eventually have no choice in that matter. Your only real choice, is when you will decide to choose.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
