She says "I can't have you until you have yourself".
Then that's what you need to do Frank - find yourself. Maybe, just maybe, then she will reconsider. She sounds as though she is frightened at the moment and wants to protect herself. You need to show her that she does not need to protect herself from you.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
