My WAW has expressed interest in DR for the first time since I bought it about a month ago. I'm still having a hard time with some things. One question in particular...
We've been married 11 years. Three kids. We both admit that there never was any real passion. Things were ok sometimes, but never great. We agree that we sort of went through our marriage just as friends. She's admitted that even at the very beginning, there really wasn't anything there as far as passion and connectedness. Her worry is, that if there never was, how can there ever be? What do I tell her? We are not just trying to rekindle an old flame. We are trying to find one that never existed.
I on the other hand over recent years have fallen in love with her. I've made significant changes. However I feel they may have been to late. I some how need to connect with her, and for her to realise that a connection is possible. How do I make some one fall in love with me that never was in love with me?
She is not in a position to put forth much effort into it. How do I tell her that even though she never had those feelings for me that if certain things are tried, that it is possible. What are those things, and what do I tell her she can do, what we both can do?
