No need to apologize, I'm not big on those, they tend to remind your W of what it is that she didn't like or whatever. Just don't go that route anymore and let it go, done issue, water under the bridge. Again, applying the principles to yourself and implementing the changes into the R without telling her is better than her reading it herself. Let her read you, thats what she eventually needs to do anyway.
Maybe down the road after you've drawn her back toward the "new Sooner", you can visit the idea again, but not now, its too early and she is fairly entrenched in her current mindset.
