Thanks for your advice - it makes perfect sense and I'll try to follow it in the future. Considering that I've already screwed up and bugged my wife to read the book, please give me your opinion of what I should do now. I could either say nothing and leave it at that, or I could approach my wife nicely and apologize saying that it was wrong of me to pressure her about reading the book, that I won't be upset if she would prefer not to read it, and that I won't mention it again - or something similar. Granted I'll actually be let down if she won't read it because I think it could really help, but maybe it would take the pressure off of her if she feels that I'm leaving it up to her. What's your opinion? Others besides Wiley feel free to chime in as well.