I am initiating the "let's go to counseling" phase of the new year. I have done some research in my city and have a "short list" of folks I think would be able to address the issues of infidelity etc. I have some questions for anyone who is or was in therapy with a spouse:
1) How did you locate your therapist? Did you try more than one?
2) Did you share the responsibility of finding a therapist with your spouse?
3) What things did you find "tipped you off" that this might be the right therapist for your sitch? Conversely what things turned you off?
4) Has anybody done any IMAGO/Harville Hendricks stuff? It looks interesting to me.
Nothing exciting to report here. I see small movements toward me from my spouse and overall things are ok. As per usual they could be moving faster as far as I'm concerned but they aren't so...I can be mad or I can go on. For now, I'll go on!
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
