Still hopeful for some pleasant surprises

[SirPrizeMe]

Movie tonight with the kids. I'm looking forward to it. W mailed me and said

I need to know your exact plans/ times, etc.. I have plans for the evening and need to coordinate with a sitter to be here when you drop them off. Please let me know a.s.a.p. tonight or first thing tomorrow morning.

Right. Well. I don't have EXACT plans and times. The kids are picking the movie. Ask them.

It really seems to be inconvenient to her, for me to be in their lives at all. As if she imagines in a divorce I will be completely vaporized, and she won't have to consider me, consider my time with the kids, I won't be "in her life" any longer. It goes along with her complete indignation about not being able to stay in the house I am currently paying for.

That rattling sound you hear? oh, it's just me shaking my head.