In her book, she talks about how she got started in her photography career. She was always snapping photos but wasn't serious about it until after the breakup. I didn't know she had a blog!
It's validating to read her story, but of course, everyone's situation is different. She was essentially a LBS, which I can identify with. But, in the memoir, she's 25, she lives in Manhattan, she has no children, and her in-laws are horrified at their son's behavior. None of these apply to me. [Just writing this I had the urge to call up W's father and tell him what really happenned. I actually picked up the phone and was almost dialing it. But I resisted the urge to cry out to him, good for me! I don't need to keep playing the holier-than-thou victim. a small victory for me. ]
10 months with no sex, no I Love You, that's nothing, eh? Well, it's something for me. It's a looooong time.
18 months is even longer.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
