FLTC, before I separated I had the exact same feelings and thoughts as you! The idea of not being able to tuck my babies in every night just tore my heart out. But, you know what, it wasn't as bad as I had imagined it would be. The hurt really is managable, honest!!!! I remember one night crying and D10 asked me what was wrong, and I said "there are so many good memories in this house, sweetie" and she replied "soon you will have good memories in your new house, Daddy" Wow, what a kid. FLTC , it will work out...really
