Good points from all! I agree with you Theoden. I will give it one more shot, as you suggested. We may be living together, probably for several months while we work on this old house so if he is going to be doing that for months, it is probably worth it to make one more attempt. If he continues to do so then he is admitting he is not a decent person (by your language), which I can't even imagine myself. If he still keeps up the emailing after that, I will just leave the room, ignore it and act like it doesn't bother me, which also may be kind of the point, I think he probably does have some kind of agenda about that, to irritate or anger me, make me hate him, and if he doesn't get the reaction maybe he will do it less as well? He has said he is doing it so that I won't have any hope in the relationship. I've told him to leave that kind of therapy or whatever you would call that to my actual therapist!.
I have a Dr. appt. on Monday to get AD's. I am hoping the Dr. will give me one that doesn't make me too zombieish with driving and the kids and all, hoping to do the play in 2 weeks; I don't want to be too out of it or sleepy. Just kind of happier and able to deal with the marriage problems and my brother's brain tumor. If a medication like that exists anyway...
