I am glad you sorted the flowers thing out. You know I always address the comments on flowers I send to the deceased rather than the remaining family. Obviously I take into account that the family are going to read them but I thought the common form was that you were sending flowers as a mark of respect to the person who had passed on. Your W and MIL just seem to want to be picky about everything!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength