FLTC, those things frost us all. I'm with you on the question of how can they...? But you know what, we'll drive ourselves insane trying to understand it. So the best thing to do is quite worrying about it.
It's time to start finding the positives in every little thing. Sure you won't be able to tuck the kids in every night but you know what, when you are able to tuck them in, it's that much more special. Same thing with everything else.
Bottom line here, life is precious, a gift and we MUST remember this and always enjoy every second of it!!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa