Quoting AchingMan: When children are involved I guess we have to bury our sadness and frustrations until they are on their own. After that point will come a sort of judgment day when a decision will be made--to continue in a one-sided relationshiip with a selfish spouse or if the spouse is unwilling to work on improving things--leave. Life is too short to be unhappy for so long.
AchingMan
I catch myself thinking a lot like your quote. I need to stick it out until my kids are grown but fantasize about going my own way afterwards. I've even been pushing a little for my wife to have a good career and retirement plan so she can support herself without me if and when "judgement day" happens. I'm not sure if my little fantasy is healthy or not.
FredD
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
