I had to call H regarding finances/taxes (he believes all I care about is the money [I have to handle all bills/taxes/finances]) and his plans with S15 for weekend. H was cheerful (usually is on phone) and told me he'd see me at the house this afternoon because they wouldn't be leaving until after I'm home from work. He actually sounded upbeat about this.
Questions: 1. Should I avoid going home until they're gone? 2. Should I go home and act as if nothing is wrong with a smile on my face because after all, I am the bigger person? 3. When H comes to the house he is usually cold/distant and doesn't initiate conversation. Should I submit myself to this so I can have face time with H since the OW is getting more face time than I am?
HELP!
________________________ soonerlady
Me 42 H 43 S19 & S15 M20 (in Feb 08), T21 Bomb 11/22/07 OW 10/05 Left 11/22/07
