Good advice, and I really KNOW all that deep down inside, and yes, life is NOT fair, but man it frosts me to think:
1. I will most likely lose a house that I love, with neighbors I love and have known for 15 years. I could fight it, and try and take the house and throw her as* out, but to what end? Is that better for anyone?
2. I will not get to kiss my kids goodnight each and every night and be there when they wake up every day and help them with their homework face-to-face every night.
3. I will not sponateously be able to pick up a hockey stick any day of the week after dinner and go out in my driveway and take shots on my son, or just sit on the couch with him and watch TV or read a book every night of the week..this one kills me. I was the one who bought all the books for the kids and read to them all the time...every day, every night. This kills me..did I say that already?
4. We lose financially big time.
5. It puts more stress on my family
Just ranting...........I can't change anything, but how does a WAS do this to their family because of some "unmet need"...pure and simple...that's it...the "Phantom Emotional Needs" that I was supposed to know I wasn't meeting...such an easy fix. And to destroy a family...for what?????
I know..I'm filled with anger, guilt, hurt, devastation....No need to tell me. I'm in a particulary bitter mood right now.
