I read some of your thread over in Infidelity/Jealousy and in my opinion you should not worry too much about the sudden lack of interest in your part. I think you've had a hard time dealing with not just SSM but also issues about A and OG. It is probably just the face of resentment and maybe perhaps even 'revenge' showing itself. However, do discuss with your W about your confusion or she may be wondering why you're rejecting her now that she is trying. Don't go through this confusion alone. Discuss it with W and make it something you both go through together to strengthen your M. Hope this helps some. LH
