I have never seen H so full of anger and hate before. He is so far gone I do not know how he is ever going to get himself out of this. I know this is not my problem to solve, but I am really worried about him. He is sinking fast. He is drinking so much lately. My C says it sounds like he is self medicating. This is partly why he is in a tight sitch with his money. I am trying to listen when he talks but I don't know what else to do. I have lots of things I am doing for myself and I can't help him. This is very frustrating. I wish I could wave a magical wand and bring him out of this. I am just sad for him today! Is this normal behavior for the WAS?


Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans