Hi Nikki, I know it's just killin' you to go through this, wondering whether or not he will leave and if so, WHEN... But you can't focus on it, you have to focus on you and your son. It seems your husband plans to make his choice no matter what you say.... I think you should DB and act loving, yet don't ask/pressure him to leave or make a decision. It'll be hard to do, but it'll make you feel better and he'll notice that and it will be contagious...
