She is somewhat distant, but occasionally present. I was working on fixing the drains in our bathroom sinks and she says "You sure have been working hard on that hon".
I tell her why it was a long task, then I get up and she offers to rub my back. I let her and when she's done I turn to her, say 'you are such a nice girl!' and move to kiss her. I get a close lipped millisecond pucker kiss. She does smile.
I smile and leave the room.
I'm sort of stuck. We really don't connect much and she is quiet most of the time. I know she's worried about money but like Amy said, I'm really 'too dependent' on her and how she is feeling because of the 'fear' of losing her again.
So, I don't know what to do as far as interacting with her. I think she's given up and is just waiting around to see if she's going to 'feel anything'.
I don't know if I should be assertive and break her out of this funk like Deida would say to do, or just give her space and deal with my current issues and allow her to choose to come back to me.
