SH
I agree with others
I would reply( if you can actually talk via phone rather than email)
offer thanks and be upbeat happy for him and his goals
ask a question about his ideas and just listen
validate and support
no advice
practice listening
maybe H is contacting you b/c he is wanting to know where you are in all of this
is he testing the waters?
I also see it as a good sign if he wants more contact as he hasnt in the past
use it as an opportunity to establish friendship and expect nothing more at this moment
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow