SH I agree with others I would reply( if you can actually talk via phone rather than email) offer thanks and be upbeat happy for him and his goals ask a question about his ideas and just listen validate and support no advice practice listening maybe H is contacting you b/c he is wanting to know where you are in all of this is he testing the waters? I also see it as a good sign if he wants more contact as he hasnt in the past use it as an opportunity to establish friendship and expect nothing more at this moment peace
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