Quote: My new lady is the same way. I drove her Pathfinder one day last month and noticed that it needed new shocks. I didnt make a big deal about it. I just bought them and installed them. I expected nothing.
But you know what happened ? She said "Thank you baby !"...with a genuine sparkle in her eyes and smile on her face.
I had to smile when you posted this. It reminded me of the time my h spontaneously replaced the spring lock on the back door with a deadbolt. I hadn't even thought about it, but he said he just felt better about my safety that way. I felt really loved. He had a really good time that evening. I see a new marketing campaign for shocks, deadbolts, smoke detectors, and outdoor lighting.
Quote: Lack of sexual drive in a lady is a SYMPTOM of other issues that we men miss in our evaluation process. It is a by product....and rarely the issue itself.
Having gone from an LD spouse who was really struggling with trying to stay sexually active with my h to a "can- barely-get-enough" spouse, I have to agree with this statement, at least in my case. Sometimes it is a symptom of something within us, within our relationship, in our lives in general, even something completely unrelated to our feelings for our spouse/lover, or a combination. Worry about my business interferes with my drive. My h's reassurance that he will still be with me even if we're living in a cardboard box helps bring it back.
