Ok, talked to H earlier today. I called him to see if the people from my company called him...unfortunately they didn't. So here is part of the conversation:
Me: So if they don't call you, then what? H: Well, I guess I will have to put in some applications...and I will put some in here (TX) too. Me: If you don't want to live there then why would you try to get a job there? H: Because I have to work somewhere. Me: If you say you want to live here (AL) then I don't see why you wouldn't take a leap of faith and just do it. You don't have anything keeping you there anymore. H: It is expensive to move Me: I thought you told your parents to help you move instead of getting you anything for Christmas H: I did, but it would just save them some money if I stayed here. Me: I am sure they would rather you be here than save some money. H: I think YOU are the one that wants me there. Me: Yes, I do. I have told you that. H: Well, I want to be there too...it is just stressful to think about moving and getting a job. Me: The only difference in being here and there is moving your stuff, its not like you have a job there. H: I know it is just expensive. Me: So leave your stuff (He only has a couch, washer, and dryer..everything else will fit in his car), it isn't like you have that much. H: I can't just leave my stuff. Me: So, you are going to stay somewhere you don't want to be because of a couch, a washer, and a dryer?? H: I think everything will work out. Things have a way of working out. You know I want to be there.
That was the jist. If he wants to be here then what is the big freaking deal?? It may seem like I am pushing him, but I almost feel like he WANTS me to push him. I am just so frustrated....patience.
