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((((((DH))))))

Love ya man!(In a totally DB kinda way \:\) )
You are the best!!!!(And funny too!)

You're right and that's just what I needed to hear

I may drop over later , I picked up some chocolates with Bailey's in the center.

I can have them at my desk and people will wonder what the heck I'm moaning and smiling about ;\)

I'll bring lots to share....

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Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife


I may drop over later , I picked up some chocolates with Bailey's in the center.

I can have them at my desk and people will wonder what the heck I'm moaning and smiling about ;\)

I'll bring lots to share....

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Oooh, yummy. Can I have one? \:\)


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08

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Absolutley NA!

You can have a few for home too!

Just in case you need that warm fuzzy feeling during the day! ;\)

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Those sound really good! And for some reason, I'm thinking about the deli scene in "When Harry Met Sally".

You need to bring a bunch with you, when you come by!

Hope you are having a good day!

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DH,
That was exactly the picture I had in my head!

The Bailey's chocolates $3.99 for 6....
The coffee to go with them $1.00...
The warm and fuzzy feeling worth a million.....

The faces of the people at work...Priceless!!!


I'm heading over there now.......
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I'm glad I wasn't reading too much into that. That would be embarrassing! But I thought you had chosen the words pretty carefully!

The chocolates sound really good!

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Got the letter from my lawyer today about H's financial statement. Hmmm pretty accurate actually.

This was sent to his lawyer and he should get it next week.
This is what the letter says"

I have your correspondence from January Blah Blah Blah

I can advise you that I touched base with my client who indicated to me that there have been some recent developments in the situation at home and she has requested that I advise you of the same. I indicated to her that I was prepared to meet with her before my vacation, however she has requested that I put off that meeting until my return in mid- February, 2008, so that she can evaluate the changes at home

Hopefully these people are wotking through a number of these issues and, in any event I will be in touch with you in the middle of February,2008



I'm thinking he is going to get a copy of the letter from his lawyer next week. Read my post 01/07/08 7:39 pm

What should I do if he asks me what does this mean???

That would mean R talk

Have to tread lightly with this one!!!!!

Should I get my statement ready or just stand?

I could also show him my copy, but if he gets it in the mail at least he will have a few hours to digest it/or fester before I get home.

Any ideas?

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these people...

OK, so that amused me. Doesn't take much, I guess....eat a chocolate....

OK, time for serious....
I would not show him ahead of time. I think there are reasons that some communication is best done through the lawyers.

Yes, you are going to have to tread lightly.

A couple questions:
Is this going to upset him? OK, you don't know, the answer might be different in 20 minutes, but what do you think?

And, as things have been changing so much, or so little, or perhaps both, lately, what does it mean to you?

Answer those, and I'll have a go!

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I think , he will think,that I am trying to hold him back, to a certain extent.

He wil ask what makes me think there is anything different?

I think I have seen him happier at times especially when there is no talk of lawyers or letters from lawyers. Or R talk, and that is why I would like to wait and see.

But I do not think he will see it my way.

Wow! that was a mouth full and a bit confusing.

But this is what comes to mind.

What do you think?


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By these people I meant You better keep your eyes open around here...

Things might get wild!!!!!!!!


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