They know they can depend on you to validate their feelings and that, at least in this regard, you feel the same way. They know that if they say it when they are just with her, they are going to get a negative response, so why bother...
Thank you very much. I think you have hit it on the head, and that is very helpful.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
