I was lurking and naturally, being the typical male that I am.....I had to wade into this thread.
Questions: ( for all of us )
-When was the last time you made her feel special for no particular reason at all ?
-Sent flowers for no particular reason?
-Boosted her self esteem with a positive comment about something that's important to HER ? ( guys.....this is a BIGGIE !)
-Treated her like a "date" ?
-Changed your cologne...oops you did that. ...Try "Farenheight" by Christian Dior....or "Mania" by Armani....or "Curve" by......( I forgot).
-Took her to a nice quiet restaurant and just listened to her talk, while looking deep into her eyes , while smiling ?
- Poured white zinfadel into a fresh strawberry's center and fed it to her ?
-Casually complemented her new outfit...purse...shoes...hairdo....anything ?
- REALLY listened and HEARD her ? Without offering advice!
- "Hmm....honey...that's a tough one....but I like your idea about such and such...I have faith in you......you can work it out..." etc.
-Just held her without initiating sex ?
-When was the last time did any of us do the things we did to make them fall in love with us in the first place ?
Obvious questions, I know. But I'm doing it all now with my new lady....and trust me.....it's made a world of difference. She stays "lit up" when I apply these things in earnest.
I send fresh flowers for her desk at work each and every week. ( drives the other office girls wild with envy, too..which makes her proud!) It only costs me $25 a week and we all know that a good date is going to cost at least $100....right ? Money well spent.
When was the last time you bought her some little gift for no reason and didnt expect sex for it ?
Treat her like a princess.....and she will become one.
Besides.......if it doesnt work out with her........I can promise that her friends will be available later on, if they know how she was treated......chuckle...just kidding.
