See Miss IC, he is getting smarter all the time! Good going, IC, for getting to the hospital. I know you both will breathe easier with the pneumonia dx. Huggggggs.
Lil, I'm SHOCKED that he took himself to the hospital. Tells me one of two things....either he felt something was not right physically
This should tell you that he CAN take care of himself and that when push comes to shove he knows when he's having an emergency.
Bacterial pneumonia is better than viral, I think, because it can be treated.
ETA:
Please don't put this down to IC fearing the wrath of Miss IC. Give him credit for making the right decision with regard to his health, even though you weren't around.
Well I'm a little bit giddy in an odd sort of way.....Finally got in touch with IC. He woke up early this morning with sharp pains in his chest and difficulty with breathing. OMG, he actually had it in him to take himself to the hospital instead of trying to "man" his way through it. He showed no signs of it late last week when they found the "cloud" on his lung...but now they are treating it as pneumonia. They are not ruling out the open lung biopsy just yet but from what they are seeing, they are pretty sure it's not the cancer spreading.
I was down here almost dreading the time for my flight back home...now I'm counting down the minutes and they can't go fast enough
I know it doesn't seem like a big deal to you guys, but I just had to tell someone. I've been waiting for something to fall in our favor and in a strange way, maybe it has
I've never been so excited about a call from the hospital
I'm so happy to hear that Miss IC. Please give him our love, and take a whole bunch for yourself.
Please don't put this down to IC fearing the wrath of Miss IC. Give him credit for making the right decision with regard to his health, even though you weren't around.
Lil,
I was just joking about that. I know IC will make the right decisions....if not for him, then for the love he has for his 2 girls. Through all of this, that has really been the only fear that he has ever talked about with me...the fear that if something did happen to him...what would he be leaving behind? Would we be ok without him?
Thank you so much and I'll do just that. I can't wait to see him tomorrow. My feelings for him lately just really reinforces my decision to try and make things work between us. Yes he's flawed....we all are. But life with him..flaws and all..just seems so much brighter than life without him
I've never been so happy to hear that someone had pneumonia. You know what I mean .... hugs to you both, and a *huge* thumbs-up to IC for manifesting common sense. You, Miss IC, are getting a continual thumbs-up for your grace through this whole thing.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
I'm gdam crying an ocean of fcking tears... I was so fcking tense... sheet, I suck at this... thank God you have Miss IC... I'm ready to throw off gloves and go at it, and there is no one to go at it with, and I suck... at this...
Buy the gd skating rink, IC. Buy it. Buy it NOW. Don't wait. Don't wait for life to get better. Just do it. Let the chips fall, and work at something up and until the point you can't... and if can't never comes, you didn't wait, and you are that much farther ahead... let me bring my boy(s) up and show you how wonderful they both are on skates...
And this is not my issue... sorry.
Sorry. Let's hook up with an IV so I can give you my gdam Corri stuff...
sorry miss IC, not my place. Mtherfcking sheet azz... stuff. {sniffle}. Dam it. Please forgive.
Thank you so much and I'll do just that. I can't wait to see him tomorrow. My feelings for him lately just really reinforces my decision to try and make things work between us. Yes he's flawed....we all are. But life with him..flaws and all..just seems so much brighter than life without him
MissIC, now that you've made your decision and I can't be accused of trying to influence you may I tell you how happy I am? I think IC's a great guy, flaws and all. He's an inspiration to me. And he found a true gem in you. I hope and pray things work out for you. Please keep us updated on how you both are doing.