But when I think of 'cow' in terms of an H... geeze... ewh. That gets into 'mommy-ing' your H... and I just don't know any way faster to kill a sex drive than getting parental with a spouse (conversely, a man being too much St. Bernard with his W).
I would usually agree with you. That's why I've resisted the cow so much. But I think it still allowed me to "nurture" H last night and I think he really needs to see more of that from me right now considering our history. I certainly would not want to remain in cow mode at all. And even he said last night he much prefers when I am horny. It obviously makes the sex much hotter. But you can't hit every one out of the park.
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A strong bunny can be very kind.
That may be more what I'm shooting for right now. That suits me better than cow.
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And so can a sexually satisfied Lioness. (In relation to a man).
I've certainly figured that out these past few weeks!
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but an H who SEEKS OUT my cow... is, to me, looking for nurturing of a weak puppy... rather than a strong puppy who needs a nice tongue cleaning and a nudge with her nose for support from the Lioness.
I basically agree here. I think that's why I've always struggled with the cow in me. I don't want him to be weak puppy but I really want him to me strong puppy. Well, strong all the animals really. And I'd say he is really getting there. So am I. LFL
have to say, for the record, that I disagree with this, but I can't lodge my rebuttal right now... except to say that I don't believe a woman should EVER use her cow with her H, no matter WHAT animal he is displaying. EVER.
The cow is the sexual healer. The cow will feed and/or f*ck a man when he's down. Like if a guy comes home from a bad day at work and wants some loving to make him feel better. Like the woman in the story, except she offers her body rather than the bowl of food. Sometimes sex can be comforting. Of course, all things in moderation and only when appropriate.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Well... that might be your cow... but... I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around that... I can say from my own LD experience, staying in cow mode really fck'd up my sex drive. And even as a slightly horny cow, the sex lackluster... eh.
Though my cow is a very strong part of my zoo, she's just not going to get anywhere near my man, except for family dinners, church on Sunday... and if he is so sick with the flu he can't even fathom having sex (and that is a really, really sick H).
And that isn't to say I can't be kind to my man... but for me, that comes from Strong Bunny and Calm Lioness. At least in my zoo.
My Swan is in there, too... I think I have a Swankey, honestly. Can you do that?
I certainly would not want to remain in cow mode at all. And even he said last night he much prefers when I am horny. It obviously makes the sex much hotter. But you can't hit every one out of the park. That may be more what I'm shooting for right now (Strong Bunny). That suits me better than cow.
Nod. Maybe you have a Swan, too... instead of a cow...
The cow is the sexual healer. The cow will feed and/or f*ck a man when he's down.
Cow=Sexual healer? I bommited a little. That is such an incestuous thought to me. I can very easily haul a man to bed as a Buniness... for sexual healing... and I can certainly bring out my cow to make chicken soup... and THEN take my Buniness to bed for sexual healing... but my cow ain't gettin' nowhere near my man in a sexual connotation ever again.
(I'm belaboring this point. Sorry, personal flashbacks to very sad and horrid memories... shudder)
SwanKey and BuniNess... Wow... I'm a likin' that... I'm Swankey... (Nice ring to it, don't you think?)
I bommited a little. That is such an incestuous thought to me. I can very easily haul a man to bed as a Buniness... for sexual healing... and I can certainly bring out my cow to make chicken soup... and THEN take my Buniness to bed for sexual healing... but my cow ain't gettin' nowhere near my man in a sexual connotation ever again.