Well... that might be your cow... but... I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around that... I can say from my own LD experience, staying in cow mode really fck'd up my sex drive. And even as a slightly horny cow, the sex lackluster... eh.
Though my cow is a very strong part of my zoo, she's just not going to get anywhere near my man, except for family dinners, church on Sunday... and if he is so sick with the flu he can't even fathom having sex (and that is a really, really sick H).
And that isn't to say I can't be kind to my man... but for me, that comes from Strong Bunny and Calm Lioness. At least in my zoo.
My Swan is in there, too... I think I have a Swankey, honestly. Can you do that?