How well do you know your wife? Do you know what she thought about when she was a little girl? What her favorite thing to do was when she was 10? What is her biggest dream and right now does she still have hopes of achieving it? What holds her back and what moves her toward it? What does she feel is the best part of her being? What would she most like to change about herself?
What was the most traumatic moment of her life? What was the best? What makes her heart sing? What makes it break? If she could have any talent or skill she wanted, what would it be? What is she most afraid of? When does she feel fearless? What does she yearn for? What is she most proud of?
Has she ever experienced utter shame and does she feel safe enough telling you about it? What kind of man does she hope her daughters will fall in love with? Does she think about growing old? How does she see herself during those years? Does she look on her life so far with a sense of pride or regret? Why? Does she look toward the future with hope or despair? Why?
Does she wonder if anyone cares as much about her as she does about all the people she takes care of? Does she have secrets she’s never told a soul? Is there a part of her she’s aching to tell you about?
The questions are infinite when it comes to getting to know another person intimately. This weekend when you’re away together alone, think about really getting to know your wife and sharing your soul with her. It’s sexy as hell.
