have to say, for the record, that I disagree with this, but I can't lodge my rebuttal right now... except to say that I don't believe a woman should EVER use her cow with her H, no matter WHAT animal he is displaying. EVER.
The cow is the sexual healer. The cow will feed and/or f*ck a man when he's down. Like if a guy comes home from a bad day at work and wants some loving to make him feel better. Like the woman in the story, except she offers her body rather than the bowl of food. Sometimes sex can be comforting. Of course, all things in moderation and only when appropriate.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
