ntl-

Thanks so much. I did read your thread. I've been lurking since you started posting but it didn't catch my eye until earlier today that your H had 3 A's. This is tough stuff. I'm fortunate to have a lot of people who are very supportive of me and especially fortunate to have found this site. I actually was on this site during my H's first A. It was a life saver then and is now. I'm registered as of 6/05, but had just popped on a few times back then. I came back on immediately this time after I found out about H's A. Yes, I do have the friends and family that don't understand. To them I just say, (as you said) unless they've lived in my shoes, they don't understand. One friend has been through this hell. She's divorced, but understands why I want to fight.

Good for you that your H is fighting for you this time and doing the things he's doing. I hope he keeps it up.

Thanks for stopping by!

Love & hugs to you also-

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day