Originally Posted By: ann25
it's just frustrating to hear him keep saying that he wants to work on it and am i happy yet, when i can't actually see anything from him.


hard for him to "work on it", when he doesnt know what to work on, right?

you can help your own frustration, by helping him.

This is me, "helping you to help him to help you" \:D

(most parents with young kids may note an oblique movie reference in that ;\) )

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle